Herbs for Love and Opening the Heart

(Editor’s Note:   These Herbs for Love will put you in the mood to open your heart.  Herbs for Love and Opening the Heart are just one amazing way that you can pamper yourself or your partner!)

Screen Shot 2014-05-20 at 12.13.29 PMHerbs are not just for “healing”, they have been used as aphrodisiacs and in love potions since time began.  Here are some ideas to help make your Valentine’s Day special (beyond Roses) with herbs that are easy to find.

Lavender – Lavender is associated with the heart chakra, is calming and soothing, and can heal emotional pain.  The scent of lavender has been used to attract men for generations; a study done by a research foundation in Chicago found that the combined scent of lavender and pumpkin was the most arousing of all the scents to male subjects. In days of old, women would put lavender under their mattress to ensure passion in their marital bed.

Apples – Are associated with the goddess Venus, and therefore love.  Apples increase sexual energy and enhance fertility.  Share an apple with the one you love – cut one in half and enjoy together!  Make an apple pie and pour love for your mate into the creation; carve a heart in the top crust for the vent and when cooled, enjoy together!

Cinnamon sticks – These stimulate and excite the passions of men.  A cup of cinnamon tea with honey will warm and lift your spirits, dispel feelings of loneliness, and relieve (or prevent) gas and bloating.  For sweet smelling breath – boil 2 cups of water and pour over 2 broken cinnamon sticks.  Let steep for a few minutes and when cool, swish around in your mouth.

Rosemary – Represents love and faithfulness.  Many cultures have used this herb as an aphrodisiac and to keep love strong.  In days of yore, women carried Rosemary for their bridal bouquet in lieu of flowers!

Ginger – A spicy and “hot” herb. The root is warming to the body and promotes internal secretions, has been used to arouse a reluctant lover, and warm up a “cold” woman.   How about a soothing foot bath with ginger tea as the soaking water?

Gardenia – The “happiness herb”. The flower will attract love in your life, and the fragrance is very calming to the heart.

Parsley – Has a long folk history of increasing the female libido, will sweeten your breath and help with digestion.

Anise (Pimpinella anisum) – Helps with digestion, relieves belching and/or bloating and sweetens the breath. Chew a few seeds after dinner, but beware: writers of old say that Anise “stirreth up bodily lust”!

Chocolate – Chocolate boosts serotonin and endorphin levels, relieving pain and boosting your mood.  In a chocolate/sex study, urologists from Milan’s San Raffaele hospital questioned 163 women about their consumption of chocolate and their sexual fulfillment. “Women who have a daily intake of chocolate showed higher levels of desire than women who did not have this habit,” the study found. “Chocolate can have a positive physiological impact on a woman’s sexuality.”

Strawberry – The “perfect little red heart”.  Part of the Rose family. In ancient Rome, strawberries symbolized the goddess Venus. Strawberries hold the energy of love, and when combined with chocolate, increase the energy of the person consuming them!

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Yvonne H. Laine, BS, MH, HHP is an AADP Board Certified Holistic Health Practitioner, Community Herbalist, Wellness Educator, Health and Wellness Researcher, Reiki Master, Herbal Alchemist, and Novice Gardener. She loves herbal medicine and likes to find ways to make it easy to use and understand. She works with people to help bring them back into wellness and wholeness, and specializes in creating energetically infused, unique and out-of-the-ordinary herbal remedies. You can find her at www.holistic-herbal.com

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  1. Thanks so much Orianna – I am honored! Enjoy some chocolate!

  2. I love this and shared it on my blog with a link back to here. Thanks. :)



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